This is something that we hear but rarely heed. So many times we may give lip-service to this fact of life but never realize the effects our reactions have on this tender part of our souls.
Whether male or female, we need to ask ourselves ” What has our actions done do the heart/psychie of another?”
Too often we may say, She/He di not pay enough attention, did not give enough affection. WHat did we do to earn that affection? Did we choose words of hate, suicide, demeaning phrases instead of honest words from our souls? Did we keep in mind that delicate balance when we spoke to our partner? Were we honest, yes, but Kind? Did we realize what we were asking and how it would be received? Did we physically abuse, no matter how small it may have seemed, our partner. A slap in anger, a punch, strike, smack to the head because we were “being bipolar?”
I have finally found the love I have been looking for all my life. Someone who watches out for my soul as much as I look out for hers. A woman who loves me , treasures me and does not take me for granted; the same way I do her.
Good hunting dear readers. Remember the heart, and the delicate emotion and life you hold in your hand.